Has it actually been that long since my husband and I wed? The years since our wedding day have flown by so quickly. Has it all been wedded bliss? Well, not exactly. However, the fortitude and longevity in marriage has been due to our commitment to the "Sacrament of Marriage". Christ between us makes three. And the Lord has definitely been wedged between the two us; often bringing us down to our knees in prayer for one and another.
The vocation of marriage is not an easy one. Especially in our times of turbulence, and even peril in the world; marriage must be something that couples do not rush into lightly. When graces are abundant though; the air is filled with heavenly sweetness and love. Like the aroma of a freshly baked apple pie on a cold, and crisp autumn day.
Marriage is also like a budding rose, beautiful but not without thorns. When it blooms, its scent carries a magnificent aroma to all in its midst. The rose eventually withers and dies buts it petals can be savored in different ways; like pressing it into a beautiful album to view for many years to come.
Marriage can be savored over time too, children fill up the house and then grandchildren arrive to bless the roost. I look forward to that chapter in our life someday. But for now what I say to all of my dear readers is; that I have blessed with a wonderful husband ( two beautiful daughters) that knows me all too well. He challenges me, loves me, and works really hard to provide for our family.
The economy has been a real challenge in our present day; but our faith in God sustains us and helps us to go forward on our journey in life. The ultimate goal is heaven. But until then we will strive to do our best creating our own little" domestic church" in a very unstable world.
Marriage is not an easy vocation. It is not for the faint of heart. But neither is the priesthood, religious or single life. However, God gives us the graces to endure whatever battles that we are engaged in. Sometimes just saying " I'm sorry" is the perfect ointment to put on a cut that isn't healing correctly.
I have often been a bit envious when I hear of couples that have never fought with each other, and have just been the "best of friends" forever. Mike and I both have Irish tempers and often don't see eye to eye. It's kind of uncomfortable when two people in the family are as stubborn as we are. But we are also very passionate people who put a lot of energy into things that we believe in. Thank goodness we have good morals and values, love our Catholic faith, and honor the " Sanctity of Marriage" because without Christ's help we wouldn't have made it to one day let alone 22 years. Happy Anniversary Mike. I love you!!!!!! Here's what I said about you last year
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